Chapter One
One — The quieter fear
There’s a particular fear that shows up once you’re finally ready to love someone again, and it’s rarely talked about honestly. It isn’t the fear of being hurt again, exactly, though that’s in there too. It’s the quieter fear that you’ll somehow build the same thing twice — that whatever went wrong the first time is baked into you now, and you’ll find a new person to build it with all over again, without even noticing you’re doing it.
I’ve felt that fear directly. This book is what I learned about it — where it comes from, how it shows up disguised as ordinary attraction or ordinary caution, and what it actually takes to build something different the second time, rather than a better-dressed version of the same thing.
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