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Five Things Nobody Tells a Man — first edition

Starter Library · No. 02

Five Things Nobody Tells a Man Going Through a Break-Up

A Short, Honest Starting Point

by William “Billy” Brown

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Introduction

What this piece is

Five things Billy wishes someone had told him plainly at the beginning of a break-up, instead of learning each of them the hard way over two years.

Nobody hands you a manual for this. If you’re reading this because you’re in it right now, or because someone you care about is, one thing before anything else: what you’re feeling has a shape, and you’re not the first man to feel it — even if it feels that way at 2am. Five short pieces, plainly said, from the inside.

What’s inside

The pieces this guide covers

  1. 01Anger usually arrives before grief does, and that’s normal
  2. 02Your body will tell you before your mind admits it
  3. 03Going to the doctor about it is not a failure of manhood
  4. 04There’s a long, undramatic middle that nobody warns you about
  5. 05It’s a chapter break, not a full stop

I wrote this one first because it’s the piece I most wish someone had handed me at the kitchen table, instead of me finding it out slowly, on my own.— Billy

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The full story is in these books

This guide is a short opening. The books below carry the full thing — slowly, honestly, and in Billy’s own voice.

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The First 30 Days Survival Checklist — first edition
The First 30 Days Survival Checklist — first edition

No. 03

The First 30 Days Survival Checklist

A Short, Practical Guide

The first month after a break-up or divorce doesn’t need you to do it well. It just needs you to get through it. Five plain, unglamorous things worth actually doing (and a few worth not doing) in the first thirty days.

About the author

William “Billy” Brown

William “Billy” Brown
Billy, at home in Scotland

Billy is a Scottish engineer, author and musician who spent more than thirty years working around the world before he ever thought of himself as a writer.

These free guides exist because the version of them he needed, years ago, wasn’t there. They’re offered freely, in case they help.